Who are we?
Side By Side--Rochester is a group of women from all over the
country and the world who are here in Rochester, MN, both short and long term, who desire to grow in
their walk with Jesus while supporting one another as medical spouses.
Being married to a physician brings with it a unique set of
circumstances. We are here to pray for, love and encourage one another
through whatever those circumstances might be, while spurring one another
on in our personal relationships with Jesus Christ.
For the 2007-2008 year we have 162 active
women; 60 new ladies this year; 127 Friday morning participants (including
9 in the ESL group); 40 Tuesday evening women; and 5 ladies doing both
morning and night studies. We have 39 states represented and 9 different
countries including: Singapore, Japan, Canada, South Africa, Korea,
France, Germany, England and Finland.
Where
and When do we meet?
Side By Side--Rochester has two groups. One group meets on Friday
mornings from 9:15-11:15 at
Autumn Ridge Church,
located at 3611 Salem Road SW Rochester, MN 55902. Childcare is
provided for a modest fee. The other group meets on Tuesday evenings
from 7:30-9:00 in homes. Childcare is not provided, but babies in
arms are welcome.
What are our goals?
1. To reach out to the spouses of physicians in our medical community in
order to help meet their spiritual, emotional and physical needs.
2. To learn more about God and the Bible while growing in our relationship
with Jesus Christ.
3. To challenge women to study and apply the Bible to their lives daily.
4. To be a place of prayer and support.
5. To build Christian community through friendship.
6. To provide a safe atmosphere for children where Biblical principals are
modeled and taught.
What do we believe?
We believe in one God who exists in three persons: Father, Son and Holy
Spirit. We believe the Bible is the inspired Word of God. We believe
Jesus died for our sins and rose from the dead. Through His sacrifice, we
can have eternal life and a personal relationship with God.
Start SBS In Your Community
Are you interested in starting a Side By Side in your
medical community? For more information
visit this link :
www.cmda.org/go/sidebyside
Why minister to doctors’ spouses?
Many
people would hardly consider them to be in need of an outreach ministry,
but it's actually quite the contrary. A false perception exists that if
you are married to a physician, you must surely have the "perfect life."
But life as a doctor’s spouse can be difficult and many are just barely
hanging on. They've been uprooted from their families, moved away from
home, and often feel like a single parent or a single person while their
spouse is building his or her career. And because of that, many struggle
with resentment, exhaustion, loneliness and isolation.
That is where SBS steps in. We believe there is something unique about
the support other medical spouses can offer each other. And though many of
our members would never come to a "Bible study," they'll come to a place
where people understand what they are going through, where they find
friends and surrogate family members, where they find help and
companionship. Our number one goal at SBS is to help meet the physical
and emotional needs of these spouses so that we may minister to them
spiritually as well. And how do we do that? We tell them about the
personal relationship they can have with Jesus Christ and demonstrate His
love for them through our love for them. Ultimately, we can only do so
much to meet the needs of one another, but our goal is to point our women
to the Lord Jesus Christ, the One who can meet all their needs.
There is a huge social element involved in SBS. We place a high value on
cultivating and developing relationships with one another and to do that,
we spend a good deal of time together outside of our regular meetings. We
offer a wide variety of activity options from Small Group get-togethers,
cooking classes, picnics at the park and trips to the movies! Some
activities include our kids; others are just for the grown-ups! But the
underlying goal of them all is to reach out, make friends, and encourage,
love, and support one another. Besides, we want to have fun while we do
it!
Many of our members have moved into a new community, away from their
families. This can be quite challenging at times. When you don’t have a
mom to call at the last minute to watch your kids or you need someone to
pick you up because you had a flat tire (and your husband cannot leave
work), you have to have a community of support. And SBS tries to be that
community by taking care of each other in ways that a family would,
whether it’s by cooking meals or providing childcare. We strive to help
meet whatever needs we can.
However, despite all the fun we have and the help we give, the most
important aspect of SBS is indeed the Bible study. Getting our members
into the Word and showing them how it is applicable and relevant to their
daily lives - that’s what it is all about. We want to share the good news
of the Gospel and lead all of our members into a deeper relationship with
the Lord Jesus Christ.